Pose Guide - Preparing for your Photoshoot
This guide gives you simple, practical tips so you know what to do with your hands, how to stand, and how to relax your expression. You do not need to memorize anything. Skim these ideas, try a few, and I will guide you through the rest during your session.
What to Do With Your Hands
Women
- Lightly touch your fingers together to create gentle, relaxed shapes.
- Hold your thumb or play gently with a ring for a natural look.
- Rest one hand lightly on your hip to create shape through the waist.
- Hold onto a jacket lapel or soft clothing fold for a polished, effortless pose.
What to Avoid
- Flat palms toward the camera. They look large and stiff.
- Clenched fists or hands jammed into pockets.
- Letting hands dangle straight down without intention.
Men
- Lightly punch one hand into the other. This squares the shoulders and creates strength.
- Rest thumbs in your pockets while keeping fingers relaxed.
- Hold a jacket lapel, adjust a cuff, or lightly clasp your hands at waist height.
- Place one hand in a pocket and let the other hang naturally.
What to Avoid
- Both hands buried deep in pockets.
- Tight fists that make the arms look tense.
- Arms glued to your sides.
Posture and Body Position
Everyone
- Stand tall with the spine long and shoulders relaxed.
- Lean slightly forward from the waist. This brings the face toward the camera.
- Shift weight onto your back foot for a relaxed, natural stance.
- Angle your body about 30 degrees instead of being straight on.
What to Avoid
- Slouching.
- Leaning backward.
- Locking your knees.
Face, Chin, and Expression
Everyone
- Bring your chin slightly forward and a little down to define the jawline.
- Soften your mouth and eyes by taking a slow breath out before the photo.
- Think of a real moment that makes you feel calm or proud, then let that feeling show.
- Use a small, genuine smile rather than a big forced grin.
What to Avoid
- Chin lifted too high, which can show too much neck and nostrils.
- Eyes opened too wide, which can look tense or surprised.
- Holding tension in your jaw or lips. Shake it out and reset if needed.
Eyes and Direction
Everyone
- Look directly into the lens for a strong, confident image.
- Look just above or beside the camera for a softer expression.
- Blink slowly before the shot to refresh your eyes.
- Follow simple direction such as "eyes to me" or "eyes to the window."
What to Avoid
- Staring too hard into the lens.
- Looking down too often, which creates heavy eyelids and shadows.
Practice Tips at Home
Everyone
- Practice in front of a mirror and notice which side you prefer.
- Try one or two hand positions so they feel natural later.
- Take a few phone photos to see how posture and chin adjustments change the look.
- Focus on feeling loose rather than perfect.
- Remember the photographer will guide you step by step.
Final Thoughts
You are not expected to know how to pose. That is the photographer's job. These ideas are here to help you feel more prepared and more relaxed. Come as you are, and we will create images that feel like you at your best.